Sunday, April 12, 2009

Should I be upset if I receive an identical floral arrangement for V-day as for another recent occasion?

I have been dating this man for about about 4 months.

Should I be upset if I receive an identical floral arrangement for V-day as for another recent occasion?
I can understand how you would be - we ladies put tons of thought into things like that. However, the fact that your man remembered V-Day and spent the money to buy you flowers is a lot of thought for a guy. Be glad that you got them - last year my boyfriend had my dad pick up a rose for me, lol!
Reply:I%26#039;d just be happy to get flowers.....many men don%26#039;t even bother....are they carnations? or fake? then maybe I%26#039;d be upset
Reply:Nope! It was nice of him to send you flowers and he probably didn%26#039;t remember that he had sent the same arrangement to you before. Or, maybe he thought you really, really liked that arrangement (like maybe you made a big deal about it the first time you received it), so he sent them to you again.
Reply:Gee, no. It was nice of him to think of you, and that%26#039;s the thought you should take to heart.





Often I will phone a florist service for a delivery, and I leave the piece up to the discretion of the clerk. I pick a price range, some types of flowers, a card and they take care of it, since I can%26#039;t see what they%26#039;ve got.





If it%26#039;s an identical piece, you might politely remark that these must be his favourite flowers, since it%26#039;s an identical piece. For all you know, he may think he%26#039;s sending you your FAVOURITE flowers.





As some would say, you are looking a gift horse in the mouth. Be thankful that you found a guy who is this thoughtful in the first place, instead of making a sow%26#039;s ear out of a silk purse. And while we%26#039;re at it, what have YOU bought for HIM?? Don%26#039;t forget that relationships are two-way streets!
Reply:No. You should be happy that he thought enough of you to send anything at all.....its the thought that counts.
Reply:No... first, it%26#039;s very nice that you received the flowers in the first place... and two, you never know... did you make a big fuss about them... maybe he thought you liked them a lot and wanted to get them for you again... Anyway, no matter the reason... it%26#039;s an extremely nice jester... just be happy and feel lucky :)



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